I've been learning breathing techniques at my CBT group and thought I would share.
When we’re
anxious we usually take very shallow breaths, cutting down on the oxygen level
in our brain. This lack of oxygen will make you feel out of control, not able
to solve the problems you might be facing. Breathing deeply will calm your
brain and help you feel more relaxed.
When you
feel anxiety coming on, change your breathing. Take a deep breath through your
nose, hold it, and then let it go out through your mouth.
When you
breathe in, you’re gathering strength. When you breathe out, you will relax.
In my CBT
class we learned to use coping statements while we do this breathing.
We repeat the same statement whenever we need to do our breathing. When we get
tired of one statement, we try another one.
The following are some coping statements:
- I can ride this through - I don't need to let this get to me
- I
have survived this before and I can survive this time, too.
- I
will use my coping skills and allow this to pass.
- Anxiety
will not hurt me, even if it does not feel good.
But I’ve found something that works even better….much
better. By making my coping statement a Bible verse or part of a verse, I
encourage myself – not only psychologically – but spiritually. I’m turning to
God, trusting Him to help me get over my fears. In the process I draw closer to
Him. Every time I breathe and repeat a coping verse to myself, I’m practising
His presence.
BIBLICAL COPING STATEMENTS
You will want to find your own favourite verses to use, but
here are a few to get you started:
·
The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
He makes me lie down in green pastures, (Psalm 23:1-2)
He makes me lie down in green pastures, (Psalm 23:1-2)
·
The
LORD your God is with you, he will quiet you with his love. (Zephaniah 3:17)
·
The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer;
my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. (Psalm 18:2)
my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. (Psalm 18:2)
·
Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. (1Peter 5:7)
·
“Be
still, and know that I am God;” (Psalm 46:10)
·
Do not be anxious about anything,
but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your
requests to God. (Philippians 4:6)
·
I can do everything through him who
gives me strength. (Philippians 4:13)
·
Remain in me, and I will remain in you. (John 15:4)
·
“Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” (Hebrews 13:5)
5 comments:
Wonderful advice, Marja, especially to use biblical promises as coping statements. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for your encouraging comment, Anon. I hope many will use this strategy. It's doing wonders for me.
Hi Marja, my name is Hong Ng and live in New York, USA. I just discover your website to help Christian living with Bipolar Disorder. I would like to learn more and find out if you have an online support group. I would love to attend. I am currently struggling with depression. Thank God for people like you to give others hope. Hope to hear your comments. Thank you Marja.
Sincerely, Hong Ng
hi marja, this is Hong Ng again, eagerly waiting for ur comment & advice how to live with bipolar depression. thank you
Hello Hong Ng,
I'm sorry for the delay in responding to your comment. We were on holidays and came back a couple of days ago - to a lot of things we had to catch up on.
Thank you for writing. The website you talked about here - is it www.livingroomsupport.org that you're talking about?
Others have also wished for a faith-based online support group. I have seriously considered starting one. However, I've had to reject the idea. With the load I already carry, I just don't think I could carry more and do a good job of it.
It would be so good if someone else had the passion to help and felt led to do this work.
I hope you have a very good Christmas.
marja
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